Official
lingerie guide
This handy guide is your best friend for preparing for your empowering boudoir photoshoot!
We’ll walk you through:
✨ What to wear to flatter your amazing body
✨ Encouragement to have fun and get creative with your choices
Your wardrobe for the session should reflect your unique style while also highlighting your best features. Let’s make this experience as personal and unforgettable as you are!
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On the day of your shoot, you’ll want to wear the loosest clothing possible. Tight bras, pants, socks, and similar items can leave pesky little indentations on your skin—and those can take a while to fade. To avoid this, skip anything snug!
What to wear:
A loose dress or loose pants paired
with a loose top
(and no bra)
Soft, comfy shoes that won’t leave marks on your feet or ankles (think UGGs, slippers, or flip-flops)
Comfort is key to looking and feeling your best!
Get
Cozy
Alright, you’ve booked your session—
now it’s time to really start preparing.
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Suddenly, the anxiety kicks in, and you’re panicking about what the heck you’re going to wear.
STOP. Right now.
Take a deep breath (or ten) and remind yourself: this is going to be amazing.
Give yourself permission to enjoy this experience instead of living in fear of it.
Yes, it’s scary to try something new, to put yourself out there, and to feel vulnerable. But here’s the thing: the absolute best things in life happen outside of our comfort zones.
We’ve got you, girl. Let’s make this unforgettable! 💖
The single most important thing to remember when picking your wardrobe is to stay true to yourself.
This photoshoot is a celebration of who you are—whatever that looks like for you and you alone!
Are you super fancy or more on the casual side? Frilly and feminine or edgy and bold? Babe, there’s no right or wrong here.
We want to see you shine in your gorgeous images!
Stay True to You!
Let’s go over a few of our favorite options in the next few pages to help clear things up and make choosing easier.
Lingerie comes in about 9,874 million different forms—who knew?!
Let's Talk Bottoms
Some styles of undies work better for boudoir than others, and these three are our absolute favorites:
The Thong
If you’ve got a bangin’ bum and want to show it off, a thong is a perfect choice. We recommend opting for styles with a bit more coverage rather than G-strings for a polished look.
High-Waisted Panties
These are an all-time favorite! High-waisted panties are incredibly flattering on all body types, especially for those who may feel a little self-conscious about showing off their tummy.
Let’s be crystal clear: we love all tummies and celebrate them equally! But we also understand that not everyone feels ready to embrace theirs fully—and that’s totally okay.
Cheeky
Cheeky panties get another big thumbs up from us! They’re designed to highlight and embrace the bum, and they do it fabulously.
When shopping for bras,
fit is the most important part.
If possible, head to your local bra shop and have a specialist properly size you. If you can, grab a matching set or two—but mixing and matching works perfectly as well!
We recommend choosing at least two bras for your shoot:
Something Classic:
A great black bra is timeless and pairs beautifully with so many looks. Aim for classic neutral colors that complement your wardrobe choices.
Something Fun:
Textures like lace, strappy details, embroidery, or velvet add an extra-special touch to your photographs.
And don’t forget about the bra’s awesome little sibling—bralettes. These beauties are not only comfy but also move with your body during posing in ways structured bras can’t.
Get Fitted by a Bra Specialist
Did you know that over 80% of women are wearing the wrong bra size?
A properly fitted bra can make a huge difference in both comfort and appearance. Take the time to visit a bra specialist and find your perfect fit—it’s a game changer!
These beauties are absolutely gorgeous on all body types—and they come in so many fabulous styles.
We get it, though: some gals feel hesitant to try a bodysuit because fitted pieces can seem intimidating. But trust us, we really hope you’ll give them a shot!
Bodysuits Are Our Jam!
Why are bodysuits
so flattering?
They skim your body, creating a sleek silhouette, rather than adding bulk like some other options (ahem, babydolls). Look for details like trim or piping that create the illusion of an hourglass figure (just like the example above).
now it’s time to really start preparing.
Alright, you’ve booked your session—
Get Cozy
Add a Little Extra Texture or Coverage
Elevate your look by layering something fun over your lingerie—or your stunning bare self!
What to look for:
Colors that complement your lingerie
Interesting textures
Timeless patterns
Sheer or lightweight materials, if possible
Options to consider:
Sweater
Button-up shirt
Robe (not your cozy housecoat, though—something cute!)
Kimono
Faux fur coat
What to avoid:
Pieces that are too tight
Heavily worn or washed items (no pilly sweaters, please!)
These little touches can make your session even more unique and stylish!
Texture Is Where It’s At in Photography
Adding interesting textures can elevate a lovely photo to an absolutely stunning one! Think velvet, lace, mesh, fishnets, faux fur, satin, silk, sequins, sparkly accents, embroidery, and metallic fabrics. These elements add depth and dimension to your images, creating a visually captivating result.
However, avoid scratchy fabrics that might irritate your skin, overwhelming designs that distract from you as the focus, and stockings or items that are too tight—fit is essential for a polished look.
Textures bring life to your photos, so don’t be afraid to experiment and have fun!
If showing a lot of skin isn’t your thing, that’s 100% okay! You’re absolutely allowed to reveal as much—or as little—as you feel comfortable with. This experience is all about you, so do it your way!
Consider options like long-sleeve bodysuits, fitted shirts, jeans, sweaters, rompers, cute pajama sets, cut-off shorts, or even leggings. These can be just as stunning and empowering as more revealing looks.
That said, avoid using your wardrobe to hide behind. Make sure your pieces fit well—not too tight or too loose—to ensure you feel confident and comfortable.
You do you, boo!
There’s No Rule in Boudoir That Says You Have to Bare It All
Choose pieces in colors that flatter your skin tone. To get a general idea of your undertone, check the veins in the palm of your hand or inner wrist:
If they appear blue or purple, your skin has cool undertones.
If they look green, you have warm undertones.
If you can’t tell, you likely have neutral undertones.
Warm skin tones tend to pop with warmer-colored clothing, while cool skin tones shine with cooler shades. That said, these are just suggestions—if you love a color that doesn’t perfectly match your undertones, rock it!
What to Avoid:
Stay away from intense, bright neon colors. These can create harsh color casts in your photos. For example, a neon orange bodysuit might make your skin glow bright orange—not ideal!
When in doubt, neutral colors like white, cream, and black always look amazing.
Pro Tip: Consider the setting where your photos will be taken and choose clothing that complements those tones for a cohesive and stunning look.
Color Tones
Accessories aren’t a must, but they can be a fun way to add an extra touch of personality and flair to your photoshoot!
What to look for:
Body jewelry, statement jewelry, heels, hats, scarves, kickass pasties (we especially love the “X” ones!), or stellar sunglasses can all bring a unique vibe to your shoot.
What to avoid:
Steer clear of anything overly gaudy, too over-the-top, or too "prop-like." Aim for simple, stylish pieces that enhance your look without taking over the spotlight.
Accesories:
Add a little
something special
what not to wear
We want to ensure we’re giving you the most beautiful, flattering images possible—and the truth is, wardrobe plays a huge role in that.
In the photos above, you can clearly see the difference in the model’s body shape with just an outfit change. In the first photo, she’s wearing a loose babydoll piece that completely hides her incredible curves. By simply swapping it for a bodysuit, her figure is beautifully highlighted, and the transformation is stunning!
Here’s the deal: babydolls are the devil. We’re here to show off your amazing body, not hide it.
Instead, opt for pieces that skim your body and flatter your shape. You’ll love the way you look in your photos—promise!
Here are also some of the most purchased lingerie on Amazon, please do not bring them to your session. They do NOT fit like they look in the advertisements.
When in doubt...
Get
Naked!
